Как ухаживать за девушкой по-Божему.

I am certain that the Lord is trying to help me to accomplish my dreams of being an excellent father and husband. (After all, this life is designed to teach us Fatherhood and Husbandhood. See Larry M. Gibson's talk Fatherhood-Our Eternal Destiny.)

Well, so. How can I court a young woman like a man of God? What do the prophets have to say about it?

1. Talk to her a lot: 

“There was so much to tell and we seemed to enjoy each other so very much. … It was a perfect courtship during which I discovered in Flora a great character and a rare combination of virtues.” 

~~Ezra Taft Benson

2. Take your time:

“Infatuation may be romantic, glamorous, thrilling, and even urgent, but genuine love should not be in a hurry. … Time should be taken for serious thought, and opportunity given for [each partner to gain] physical, mental, and spiritual maturity. Longer acquaintances will enable both to evaluate themselves and their proposed companions, to know each other’s likes and dislikes, habits and dispositions, aptitudes and aspirations." 

~~Hugh B. Brown

"If one tries to stand the pyramid on its point, expecting romance to hold everything else up, the pyramid will fall." 

~~Bruce C. Hafen 

3. Find simple opportunities for interaction:

“Took a ride over on South hills. Saw purple [mountains] at sunset. Very beautiful. … Went strolling with [Emma Ray]. Told each other secrets. A memorable night!”

~~David O. McKay

But depth and meaning emerge in a relationship only when two people converse, exploring each other’s feelings and aspirations and sharing concerns and perspectives. This kind of growth best occurs during simple, wholesome activities. 

Be the kind of boy that the girl you want would want. 

~~Kimber Magoffin 

To Sum Up: 

"Make your highest priority finding a worthy, eternal companion. When you find you are developing an interest in a young woman, show her that you are an exceptional person that she would find interesting to know better. Take her to places that are worthwhile. Show some ingenuity. If you want to have a wonderful wife, you need to have her see you as a wonderful man and prospective husband."

~~Richard G. Scott 

1. Make it your highest priority.

2. Show that you are an exceptional person that she would find interesting 

3. Take her to places that are worthwhile. 

4. Show some ingenuity.